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... but my feed is full of shinies, which will keep me going after lunch... I'm sure of it. And I'm eternally grateful for anyone who's spent the night posting shinies of Junsu, Yunho and VIXX. They, along with Se7en, Rain and G-Dragon will save my sanity today.

Once I've sorted out a 10km gap in our schedule in the middle of nowhere, Japan. Met with a colleague to finalise plans for a course we're running on Wednesday, bought a stack of magazines to find inspirational images to use in said course.... and when the fuck was the last time I bought a magazine?... cleaned the house, organised mobile wifi, approved the second round of Ghost edits, gone grocery shopping and made dinner. There's a day job supposed to be happening in there, too. Some blog writing and a Japanese lesson.

So, of course... I start the day by baking muffins. Totally channeling Gareth here. Very much like this scene:

“You don’t have to cook for me all the time,” Jack offered softly. “I can phone for a curry if you fancy a night away from the stove.”

“What?” Gareth watched Jack pick at the label on his beer bottle and sighed. “Jack, have you seen the state of my desk? I had to fire two people today for gross misconduct, and just as I was leaving Lisa called to tell me that the CPS may want the boys as trial witnesses. The only reason I didn’t collect five speeding tickets on the way home is because I was looking forward to making dinner.”

“I’m sorry I wasn’t—”

“Shut up. You were exactly where you needed to be. Frazer had it covered. And I wasn’t fishing for sympathy. Just… don’t ever… tell me not to cook.”

A smiled crinkled the corners of Jack’s eyes. He raised his beer in a quick salute. “Noted.”

“Besides”—Gareth went back to his knife and chopping board—“you’re still far too skinny. So just sit there and swallow what I dish up.”
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Soooo.... I've finally finished proof-reading Job Hunt. And I've gotta say it, that was harder than three rounds of edits. The rest of my week has been equally crazy with lots of clients suddenly needing things urgently. Add networking meeting and training sessions and I've barely seen my husband all week. Or written any fiction.

And even though the proof copy is now off my desk, we have a release date and I've been taught how best to approach the marketing... the mountain of work hasn't gone down and between client work, marketing prep and planning our holiday there's no fiction-sized gap immediately in sight.

Ah well, at least I got to have lunch with my other half today, which was nice. And while I was racing from appointment to appointment yesterday, I also managed to pick up our new medieval style bedside lights - which look simply stunning. Or they will do, when the furniture arrives next week. After that, I'm only a medieval-style tapestry and a cast-iron curtain pole away from an amazing bedroom!

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Unexpected kindnesses somehow stay with me. Especially when it involves someone stepping outside their routine. Like the email I received this afternoon from a subscriber to Essentially England's newsletter that read:

Glad to have you back. Missed your stuff. Have a splendid New Year!!!!

I don't know the lady. Have never spoken to her.  And I did miss sending out a few editions of my newsletter due to cat-troubles and general lack of vim. I just couldn't be my cheerful self, so I let it slide.

It never once occurred to me that someone would miss the newsletter.  Now I know better.

And the mail is in the jar...
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a jar of good things
Even something as quietly irritating as Facebook can have its uses, it seems. Amongst all the recent memes extolling the virtues of fresh starts, diets and detox I came across a rather good idea on the Foodies Like Us FB page.  (And I liked it so much, I borrowed the photo)

So here's what you do:
  • Find a jar and a pad of post-it notes
  • Every time something good happens, write it down on a post-it and drop it in the jar
  • at the end of the year, you can literally count your blessings
Though I actually plan to open the jar and read all the little good snippets when I'm having a bad day - just to help me realise that things aren't all that bad.

The first note just went in my jar: a client mailed to tell me they're so pleased with my work and the results they're getting, they'd like to expand on our existing arrangement.

There will hopefully be plenty more where that came from.  Only problem left to solve: What do I call the jar?


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Essentially England, my English history and food website, is five years old today, so please forgive me if I'm feeling a little introspective.  I still recall sitting at my desk during lunchbreak, staring at the screen that said "Click SUBMIT to register your domain."  And I took a deep breath, closed my eyes and clicked. 

Nothing awful happened. Not then, not later when I started to comprehend the mammoth project I had so blithely committed to.  For the last five years, the England site has been a sideline to two engineering jobs, a p/t teaching job, a house move and the start of a new business.  It's the size of very two long novels, attracts half a million visitors a year and pays a large chunk of our mortgage.

More importantly, though, it's given me confidence as a writer. I've actually written more fiction in the last 5 years than I did in the 10 years before that. And I've even (shock horror!) shown it to other people!  And writing for a large part of my living - and dealing with the resulting comments, complaints, suggestions etc. - has given me resilience and a slightly (ever so slightly!) less perfectionist attitude.

So I thought that today is a good day to take another deep breath, close my eyes again and take another jump.
I don't do New Year's Resolutions - I mean, why wait? - but a friend told me that if you want to stop smoking or lose weight you should tell all your friends so they can sabotage your efforts keep you on target. It's supposed to work, so I thought I might give it a try.

**Deep breath, close eyes ...**

In 2013, I will locate some courage, ignore the part of my brain that upbraids me for arrogance in thinking anything I write could possibly be good enough, and submit at least two short stories to a publisher. 
(And hopefully you won't have to contact me in 364 days to ask if I've done it....)

There. Nothing awful's happened. Yet.


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